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Get married right out of college.
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Have four or five children before age 30 (3 boys and 1 or 2 girls and in that order).
Hey, I’m a planner and that’s what planners do! Well, man’s mind plans his way, but it’s the Lord’s purpose that will PrEvAiL! And my plans were obviously not God’s purpose.
So there I found myself single and 30-SoMeThInG. (I didn’t get married until I was 35.) What’s a girl to do? I can actually say that I was very content being single. Did I want to get married, absolutely, but I really did enjoy all the luxuries of single-hood. It wasn’t always easy and at times it was lonely, but I was content.
If you find yourself in the single stage of life and wish you had a significant other, here’s some input that may help:
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Enjoy the FrEeDoM of single-hood. You get to call all the shots!
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Develop yourself as a person. Become a person of MoRaL ChArAcTeR that a future spouse would find attractive.
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PrAy for God’s direction regarding finding the right person and the grace to help you through!
- Do all those things that you’ve been wanting to do, but that may be difficult to do once you’re married. (I was able to visit family in Asia, which may not have been possible as a married person.)
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Cultivate close relationships with family and friends. Develop close friendships with other singles.
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Get yourself in a position of FiNaNciaL freedom.
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Focus on your career and/or professional life. Maybe it is time to venture out and take a risk in starting the business/career you’ve been dreaming about.
Fortunately, after the long wait, I was blessed with a WoNderFuL husband. He’s funny, caring, generous, laid back, and fun to be around. I loved my life as a single person and I love my life now. I’m sure to many, my life now may look boring. My idea of a great evening is hanging out, At HoMe, with my family and friends! It may not seem exciting to some, but I’m very CoNtEnT and happy. And I’m not going to MeSs WiTh “HaPpY”!
So, if you’re single and wishing you were not, hang in there. This song is dedicated to you and anyone, for that matter, married or single, looking for love that never fails.
Happy Valentine’s Day.
;) Robynn
Your Love Never Fails Lyrics
Nothing can separate
Even if I ran away
Your love never fails
I know I still make mistakes
But You have new mercies for me everyday
Your love never fails
Chorus: You stay the same through the ages
Your love never changes
There maybe pain in the night but joy comes in the morning
And when the oceans rage
I don’t have to be afraid
Because I know that You love me
Your love never fails
Verse 2: The wind is strong and the water’s deep
But I’m not alone in these open seas
Cause Your love never fails
The chasm is far too wide
I never thought I’d reach the other side
But Your love never fails
Bridge: You make all things work together for my good

I didn’t marry until I was 28. I am so thankful to the Lord that I finally submitted to His will and open to the idea of being single. Low and behold, He had other plans for me and I soon met my wife at church! Being patient (and a little picky) resulted in me finding the love of my life and I could not be happier with how it turned out. Good post. This reminds people God has a plan for us and the quicker we come to terms with that, the quicker we can fully enjoy life!
So true “D”! It sometimes takes awhile for us to come to terms with God’s plans, but when we finally do, it is like, “Whew! Now I can finally live in peace and contentment!” Thanks for you comment!!
Great post Robynn. Thanks for sharing a glimpse of this part of your life with us!
You bet, Lara! I hope my story can help someone who is where I once was!!
Love the picture!! I keep telling my daughter everything works out the way it is planned…God’s plan! Thanks for SHARING!
Thanks Donna! God’s plan really does pay!! Thanks for your comment!!
You were such a beautiful bride at the age of 35!!!
Thank-you Sara!!